is it good 2 place everybodys wishes above ones own?
is it good 2 take up everybody sorrows onto oneself?
but how could one possibly do it? to make everybody happy? on could possibly have hard n tested methods of being happy in every other situation n give those ideas 2 people in distress... they r jus givin them ideas or maybe solutions.. but wat would be the perspective of the listener?he would mostly consider it as an advise or maybe his ideas wouldnt match with the person who is giving the ideas.. only the most mature person would be open 2 new ideas..
but if this method could work.. most of the population would be happy.. but nobody here can digest the fact that somebody can have better ideas than they have..nobody understands that somebody is tryin 2 help them out, rather ego starts playin a very big part...
to advise someone will also mean u r sacrificing urself of the deicency level of not pokin into others business n not makin them act the way u want.......
u could also help people by listenin 2 their sorrows n tellin them tat after all they r not wrong.. n tell them it is human for such situations 2 exist n boost their confidence level so tat they would be able 2 handle the situation themselves.....
but here u wouldnt find happiness for yrself...but ull merely be a garbage where people will be piling up waste on u...
tis is not the usual me... n tis kind of philosphical is also not me... but ive been hurt wen i had tried helpin somebody n tat made me publish such a post..
n i started analyzing y should one really help someone else? wat does he actually gain? answers to these questions nobody knows...
rather i feel one should lead his life peacefully n try ways so tat he can realize his dreams, rather than waste one's energy to help somebody else
well! wat dya feel... plz post comments...
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